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# Chapter 3: The Proxy Throne
> “He never raised his voice.
> He never pulled the trigger.
> He simply whispered to the man who would.”
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## I. The Genius of Indirection
Andrew LeCody was not a loud man.
He did not rule with fury.
He ruled with *plausibility*.
He found others—
angrier, louder, more confrontational.
And he made them kings in rooms he *owned* without ever entering.
These were not random alliances.
They were tactical deployments.
He gave them recognition.
He gave them influence.
And in return, they became *his mask*.
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## II. The Cult of the Enforcers
They came with different names.
Different roles.
Different energies.
But the pattern was always the same:
- One to mock.
- One to intimidate.
- One to "reasonably" explain his decisions after the damage was done.
These were his *proxies*.
They enforced his will without attribution.
And when they went too far?
He shook his head,
sighed softly,
and said,
> “Ill talk to him.”
He never did.
Because that *was* the plan.
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## III. Triangulation as Governance
In narcissistic systems, triangulation is not an accident—
it is **policy**.
One enforcer was the bad cop.
Another was the “neutral” mediator.
Andrew played the reluctant benevolent,
always willing to “reconsider” after the target was already exhausted and disoriented.
This created a reality distortion field—
where people couldnt tell if they were paranoid or prophetic.
By the time they figured it out,
they were gone.
And the throne?
Still warm.
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## IV. The Language of Distance
Note how he never acted alone.
Never used “I” when blame was near.
Always “we.”
> “We discussed it.”
> “We all agreed.”
> “Its not personal.”
And yet—no names.
No transcripts.
No paper trails.
Only proxies.
Only fog.
He ruled in negative space.
His power was defined by what *wasn't there*
clarity, accountability, truth.
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## V. Field Notes
- Narcissists in leadership roles often develop *multi-tiered enforcer networks* to preserve deniability.
- Emotional triangulation is more than a relationship pattern—its a governance structure.
- When you cannot identify who made the decision, it means **the narcissist already won**.
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## VI. Closing Echo
> “He never needed to be the face.
> Just the silence behind it.
>
> His enforcers screamed,
> while he curated minutes.
> They threatened,
> while he drafted bylaws.
>
> They were his voice.
> But never his fingerprints.
>
> And that is how you build
> a **proxy throne**.”