NarcStudy_AndrewLeCody/book/chapter_03_the_proxy_throne.md

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Chapter 3: The Proxy Throne

“He never raised his voice.
He never pulled the trigger.
He simply whispered to the man who would.”


I. The Genius of Indirection

Andrew LeCody was not a loud man.
He did not rule with fury.
He ruled with plausibility.

He found others—
angrier, louder, more confrontational.
And he made them kings in rooms he owned without ever entering.

These were not random alliances.
They were tactical deployments.

He gave them recognition.
He gave them influence.
And in return, they became his mask.


II. The Cult of the Enforcers

They came with different names.
Different roles.
Different energies.

But the pattern was always the same:

  • One to mock.
  • One to intimidate.
  • One to "reasonably" explain his decisions after the damage was done.

These were his proxies.
They enforced his will without attribution.
And when they went too far?

He shook his head,
sighed softly,
and said,

“Ill talk to him.”

He never did.

Because that was the plan.


III. Triangulation as Governance

In narcissistic systems, triangulation is not an accident—
it is policy.

One enforcer was the bad cop.
Another was the “neutral” mediator.
Andrew played the reluctant benevolent,
always willing to “reconsider” after the target was already exhausted and disoriented.

This created a reality distortion field—
where people couldnt tell if they were paranoid or prophetic.

By the time they figured it out,
they were gone.

And the throne?
Still warm.


IV. The Language of Distance

Note how he never acted alone.
Never used “I” when blame was near.
Always “we.”

“We discussed it.”
“We all agreed.”
“Its not personal.”

And yet—no names.
No transcripts.
No paper trails.

Only proxies.
Only fog.

He ruled in negative space.
His power was defined by what wasn't there
clarity, accountability, truth.


V. Field Notes

  • Narcissists in leadership roles often develop multi-tiered enforcer networks to preserve deniability.
  • Emotional triangulation is more than a relationship pattern—its a governance structure.
  • When you cannot identify who made the decision, it means the narcissist already won.

VI. Closing Echo

“He never needed to be the face.
Just the silence behind it.

His enforcers screamed,
while he curated minutes.
They threatened,
while he drafted bylaws.

They were his voice.
But never his fingerprints.

And that is how you build
a proxy throne.”